Friday 20 July 2012

Dating In The Electronic Age

With every passing day, things change in the dating world. It seems like only yesterday all you needed for a successful courtship was a big club to smack a love interest over the head with. But nowadays, especially with social media, there are some considerations you need to make while dating new people. In the spirit of brotherhood, I have taken the time to highlight a few good ideas that you should consider when dating someone in this brave new world!


Emailing Her At Work

Almost every white collar worker has a computer at their disposal in their job place now. This is an opportunity for you to send some little "thinking about you" note. Despite the temptation to remind her about the noises she made the night before during your adult times, or send her a picture of a train going into a tunnel with the caption “thinking of you”, keep anything you send to her workplace professional. You never know which of her superiors are reading her work correspondence, and you don’t want to get her in trouble. And keep it to a minimum – short, sweet and nothing embarrassing to her if someone else reads it. Most people do not realize that work email is not private and it is totally owned by the company where she works. They can read anything at will without any legal documentation required.


Male Acquaintances of Hers Posting On Her Facebook Account

Do not get jealous or upset about what someone is putting on her wall. She is not the one who did it. You will know more from her actions as to what the real situation is. If they do not have a long standing fraternal relationship partly based on lewd joking and she has any sort of class, she will likely delete the post, and if it persists will un-friend the dud. If you see the guy at a club, feel free to “crop dust” him as revenge. (Crop dusting is walking by someone in a club and farting as you pass them, leaving them in a big stink cloud).


Turn Down Your Answering Machine to “Off”

People call at the most inconvenient times. If you are with your girlfriend in your apartment and your ex calls looking to get back together it could prove embarrassing. To avoid this type of drama in your life, it is just a lot safer to leave the machine off and check messages when you are alone.


Get Up With Her, Then Go Back to Sleep

More and more women are entering the workplace with a full head of steam to do well. To this end, she may have to be an early riser to stay on top of workloads. If she’s crashing at your place, get up with her, no matter how early it is. While she is showering, fix her up a light breakfast of toast and either tea or coffee, depending on her tastes. She will be happy for the attention, and that will likely garner you extra special attention later that evening! Plus, you can go right back to sleep once she leaves. This is the best nooky-getting gimmick ever!


Use Your Smartphone Reminders

Use the technology you have in your pocket to your advantage. You may already be using it for important events already.. Do not just use it for birthdays. Use it for important dates in your relationship. Your first date, your first kiss, the first time you slept together, etc. Include notes for each reminder as to what you did, what she was wearing, what you talked about, and where you went. Program it to remind you a week out so you can make arrangements for that special memory, such as reservations or flowers. Also have it remind you the day before just in case you get focused on something else. You will be rewarded with adult fun.


Wash Your Sheets Weekly

Some guys just do not get it. It is okay to sleep in your own drool stains. It is not cool to expect your girlfriend to do the same! Clean it up if you want her to actually lie down in your bed to have sex with you.


A Day At The Sex Store

If you plan to pick up any merchandise at a sex shop, make sure that your girlfriend is there with you. You cannot return intimate apparel or sex toys, so it is worth the effort to get the right stuff in the first place. Make the effort to involve her in the selection so she will actually be into using whatever you get. The best approach is to just cajole her into checking the place out for fun. As you joke about some of the more extreme things, she will invariably find some simple things that are just fun and not really kinky in any way. Lubes are a good place to start. Whipped cream, skimpy clothes, costumes and edible panties are also an easy sell. After the first few trips, she will become more willing to try other toys.


So just make a few changes and have a great time!

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