Kinky Dates

Occasionally the cosmos will line up for some lucky dude and he will find himself paired up with a sexually adventurous woman. The kind of woman who isn’t “prim and proper”, but rather, one who is interesting and kinky.  If you want to keep a lady like this interested in you, you have to change up the routine often, and take her to down less traveled roads regularly. Here are some ideas to get you thinking outside of the box so that you can end up inside the best sort of box on a regular basis!

Stripper Bar

If your women has any sorts of bi-sexual tendencies, she will likely jump at the chance to go to a strip bar. I mean, she will likely enjoy the action as much as you! She might even buy you a lap dance, and vise-versa! There are some memories to last a lifetime! Many strippers are bi-sexual, or into threesomes, so if you want to really be out there, you might find that the girl on stage can be persuaded into a menage a trois. 

Sex Toy Shopping

If you have the blahs and not feeling like going to any of your normal dating places, consider taking your honey to an adult store. There are lots of interesting gizmos and apparel to look at. If nothing else, it can be a good laugh, but who knows, you may find something interesting to buy that both of you want to try out. Relaxing your normal inhibitions a bit by having a couple of drinks before going never hurts. It takes the pressure off, and just makes things a bit more fun. Pay attention as you walk around and take notice of what she is touching, or looking at. Ask questions and see if she gets a blush on. If you see something sexy, tell her you would like to buy it for her. Ask her if there is anything that she wants to get for you? You can’t lose at the adult shop. A word of caution here. Most quality shops are pretty expensive, and there is a no-returns policy on just about everything. Make sure you can bankroll the trip before embarking on it.

Role Playing

A fun and kinky date is one in which you pretend to be strangers that meet at the bar, and then you seduce each other using your different persona. Act like you don’t know each other and meet at a hotel bar. Buy her a drink and start chatting her up. Watch the bartender get more and more impressed the more and more she seems to be interested in you. Then, rent one of the rooms in the hotel and get the sheets dirty, if you know what I mean. She can play “Nurse Naughty”, “Sex Teacher”, “Marion the Librarian”, almost anything.

The best way to pick the role to play is to write them all down on separate pieces of paper, and then pick them out of a hat or something.


S&M Parlor

For a real change of pace, consider Bondage. It requires that you fully trust your partner, and that may actually add to your relationship. Lots of people like the bondage and domination part of it. Saddo is not everyone's cup of tea..  Most regular practitioners are into the bondage side of things rather than the domination or the saddo masochism, so do not let the idea scare you.  Most parlors are willing to help newbie's along, even if they normally cater to the more experienced.



That should be enough to dip your toe into. If you do not have a lot of room for costumes, consider renting them. For other ideas, there are always fetish parties to attend, and sexy-themed hotel rooms to stay in. Just make sure you keep it fun, entertaining, and KINKY!

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Fun Dating Advice for Men