When you start dating a new woman regularly, eventually you’re going to start sleeping over at her place. At least, you hope you are! Once that starts happening, the smart dater will have a sleepover kit ready at her place at all times. The essentials that I list here can easily fit into a small zipped up bag and stashed in your car. At some point, it should be possible for it to become a permanent fixture at her place. Read, see the wisdom, and get yourself one today!
Something For Your Feet
Your girl may be a wonderful person to be with, but that does not necessarily mean that she is the worlds best housekeeper. On top of that, the floors in her apartment may be freezing in the winter. Pick up some cheapo slippers so you have something to slip on if you have to hit the john in the middle of the night. Nothing is worse than going back to bed with cold feet.
Protection
Better safe than sorry. But also, better adventurous than boring. Get yourself some of the new fangled rubbers they’ve got out now. Have some laughs with it and mutually decide which ones you both like best. Unlike American Idol, even the losers in this tryout might have a lot of entertainment value!
Warmup Suit
On the same note as the footwear, you want to bring a sweatsuit in your overnight bag. Likely her landlord lowers the temperature at night to save moola. She might only have one little blanket. Long story short, it’s better to have it and not need it, than need it and not have it. Otherwise, you’ll have to borrow one of her shawls.
Toothbrush
This is a no brainer. If you are like me you abhor using someone else's toothbrush, and do not like using another brand of toothpaste either. Buy the travel size toothpaste tube to save room.
Tapers
You just cannot beat the affect that candles have on a woman. Whether you use them over a meal, to watch TV, or in the bedroom, they are a great mood setter!
Sabrina
This movie is one of the greats for getting a woman into a romantic move. So keep this handy, dandy little gem around for the next time you are not in the mood to go out, the video stores are closed and there is nothing good on the 85 or so cable TV channels available to you. In any event, the content is good, so it bears multiple viewings. It may not be a Bruce Willis shoot-em up movie, but if it gets you shooting your own gun later in the evening, that makes it great content!
Romantic Card
here is a beauty that you probably wish you had thought of before! Get a blank card in the romance section of a card rack; something with a nice picture that signifies a romantic situation. Inside, you have already taped a pre-paid $100 gift card to whatever store she likes. Now draw a big heart or something, and write in a romantic comment like, “On a day like today, I am always reminded how much I love you”. You have to make sure that whatever you write does not have any reference to any particular special occasion or special day. Then some fateful day will surely come when you have forgotten some important anniversary, or birthday or something. You go to your sleepover bag, pull out the card, and give it to her. Presto – your ass is no longer grass! Tell your buddies.
Ear Plugs
Everyone snores sometimes, even hot chicks like the one you are dating. If you cannot sleep, just pull the plugs from your bag and put them on. Just make sure that you never use them when she is trying to talk to you!
Sleep Mask
Some women have bedrooms that face the rising sun, and that fill with light early in the morning. Some women can sleep through this blinding light, but if you can’t you’re prepared. Plus, you or she can wear it if you want to have some kinky sex.
Next Day’s Clothes
An emergency change of clothes is essential as well. I mean, after all, if you do not have spare clothes and something happens, you will have to dress in drag.
Sade Music
Sometimes musical tastes differ, and this is one of the things that makes the world and interesting place to live in. However, when it comes time to play something to enjoy when making love, if her tastes run exclusively to Celine Dion, it can be impossible to concentrate on what you need to. Everyone can get groovy to Sade.
Hardcover Book
It is always good to have some reading material if she has to leave you alone for a while. It prevents you from snooping, and it makes you look smart when she comes back and you’re reading. Stay away from nudie books. Most women hate that. If you can stomach it, try bringing and reading the latest Nicholas Sparks book.
So, there you go. A great idea, easy to make, and invaluable.
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Friday, 16 December 2011
Saturday, 15 October 2011
BBW Sexy Ladies
Everyone has their own ideas of what sexy means.
The umbrella of "sexy" covers many ideals.
Over the years, the boundaries have been pushed, tested, stretched and shattered where the concept of sexy is concerned.
Sex, for much of the last hundred years, was considered to be a not to be discussed in polite company topic.
Once the big screen became a big part of everyone's life, the idea of liking large women gradually became less in vogue with most men. Hollywood stars were usually much thinner than the average for their time. The reason was simple; cameras add pounds to anyone's form, so movie-stars tended to be thinner than average in real life to look normal in film. Slowly, the the idealized form of sexy gradually shifted from voluptuous to thin.
There is now a trend underway that is moving the ideal of sexy to more normal BMI's.
With plastic surgery, big boobs are more in vogue, even on skinny women.
Push up bras with double padding are all the rage among the slim set, but when their dates see them while horizontal on, the the truth is out. Men are disappointed with falsie types. Because of this, many men are increasingly look at women with naturally large busts, so voluptuous is back in vogue. And on that note, who is more voluptuous than a big beautiful woman?
When you look back in time, curvy women were considered to be most desirable. Larger women were idealized as child bearers, and offspring were a need in hunter-gatherer and rural based societies. Even in during the last ice age, small figurines usually depicted their goddesses as voluptuous women and in most cases these statuettes were more obese than voluptuous.
The lyrics in "Fiddler On The Roof" (If I Was a Rich Man) a story about Russian peasant society at the turn of the twentieth century exemplifies a rich man's wife as having a proper double chin. In other words, for much of history, being portly was a status symbol, because it proved you had an abundance of food, and therefore must be rich.
Towards the end of the twentieth century, there has been a new incoming citizens from many different ethnic groups into north America. With these societies of people have also come a desire for larger families and women who will bear larger families. The well endowed woman is back in fashion.
Who knows, maybe in a few more years, the most desirable porn queens will be big beautiful women. Mae West was certainly not in any way skinny, but in the early twentieth century she was most men's wet dream.
If you are interested in meeting and dating a BBW, or if you are a big beautiful woman looking to meet a man who will appreciate you for what you are, then you should click on this link.
BBW Dating Sites
There are also a lot of other dating genres out there, so for those of you who are not into big beautiful women, this link is for you:
Top 100 Personals Sites
The umbrella of "sexy" covers many ideals.
Over the years, the boundaries have been pushed, tested, stretched and shattered where the concept of sexy is concerned.
Sex, for much of the last hundred years, was considered to be a not to be discussed in polite company topic.
Once the big screen became a big part of everyone's life, the idea of liking large women gradually became less in vogue with most men. Hollywood stars were usually much thinner than the average for their time. The reason was simple; cameras add pounds to anyone's form, so movie-stars tended to be thinner than average in real life to look normal in film. Slowly, the the idealized form of sexy gradually shifted from voluptuous to thin.
There is now a trend underway that is moving the ideal of sexy to more normal BMI's.
With plastic surgery, big boobs are more in vogue, even on skinny women.
Push up bras with double padding are all the rage among the slim set, but when their dates see them while horizontal on, the the truth is out. Men are disappointed with falsie types. Because of this, many men are increasingly look at women with naturally large busts, so voluptuous is back in vogue. And on that note, who is more voluptuous than a big beautiful woman?
When you look back in time, curvy women were considered to be most desirable. Larger women were idealized as child bearers, and offspring were a need in hunter-gatherer and rural based societies. Even in during the last ice age, small figurines usually depicted their goddesses as voluptuous women and in most cases these statuettes were more obese than voluptuous.
The lyrics in "Fiddler On The Roof" (If I Was a Rich Man) a story about Russian peasant society at the turn of the twentieth century exemplifies a rich man's wife as having a proper double chin. In other words, for much of history, being portly was a status symbol, because it proved you had an abundance of food, and therefore must be rich.
Towards the end of the twentieth century, there has been a new incoming citizens from many different ethnic groups into north America. With these societies of people have also come a desire for larger families and women who will bear larger families. The well endowed woman is back in fashion.
Who knows, maybe in a few more years, the most desirable porn queens will be big beautiful women. Mae West was certainly not in any way skinny, but in the early twentieth century she was most men's wet dream.
If you are interested in meeting and dating a BBW, or if you are a big beautiful woman looking to meet a man who will appreciate you for what you are, then you should click on this link.
BBW Dating Sites
There are also a lot of other dating genres out there, so for those of you who are not into big beautiful women, this link is for you:
Top 100 Personals Sites
Saturday, 8 October 2011
The Next Decade in Online Dating
Modern Online Dating Survey Results:
Here is a summary of the results of a study about the online dating practices of urban dwellers. This was the culmination for interviewing just under 100 men and women about how they date online and what they look for in potential dates and partners. Online Dating Services may not result in you finding the love of your life, but it may be an interesting diversion from all those poorly directed eHarmony.com and Match.com TV commercials that try to convince you about how lonely you are during late night movies.
Some Dating Insights Gained:
1) It is not uncommon for members of the online dating community to be members on various sites at the same time. The attitude is that the more exposure you give yourself to other people, the more likely it is that you will find a match. Sort of like buying several lottery tickets instead of just one. These same people are likely to be dating several different people concurrently hoping to find the one who clicks. Playing the field is a defence mechanism in the online arena. Because of the anonymity of the sites, you cannot tap into you normal social networks to find out about the people you are talking to online, or dating in real life. There is a much higher chance of being taken in by a smooth talker. It is also easy to give your heart away to a loser. Keeping several people “in process” at the same time helps you from “settling” on any one of them prematurely. Because of the anonymous nature of online dating sites, you cannot prescreen people through friends before meeting them. One way dating sites try to mitigate that is via chat and anonymous email, but even so, once you meet in real life for the first time, it has more of the hallmarks of a blind date that any other dating situation that you have found yourself in. With this high tendency not to hit it off on the first actual date, the online dating community tends to interact with more people at the same time, and as a consequence, they are more tolerant of people playing the field during the initial relationship phases.
2) Online Dating is a visual media at best. If you do not post pictures or videos of yourself, especially in situations where you are having fun with others, you can expect little or no action. Ladies about having less than average looks. If you do a good job of portraying yourself in both words and pictures of someone who loves to have fun, you will get positive results. For both men and women, this is a marketing exercise – the key here is not to take a crappy looking big-nosed picture of yourself staring into your web-cam’s fish eye lens – everyone already knows that you stare at your computer a lot because you are on an online dating site in the first place. There is no need to supply a picture of you in such an unflattering pose. The key is to portray an image of you as a person who has fun interacting with other people, animals, children, sports events, etc. If you are a woman, just remember that men see and assume – most do not read much, they look and evaluate visually for the most part, so keep the words to a minimum. If you are a man – pay attention to the words as best you can – look for the “must not be” things that many women pre-qualify their profiles with, and do not annoy them if you are a “must not be” person. Women are generally strong communicators; hopefully having to read “likes long walks on the beach” for the umpteenth time will not make you lose your cookies. In any event, for both genders, keep the profile text fun, factual and short. If you are lucky, you will find other people with similar interests and a complimentary sense of silliness. Be prepared to use the email and chatting facilities of the online site to get to know people better. Do not try to give your life story in the profile. Your profile is a short teaser ad that highlights your benefits to catch someones eye. Do not pollute it with negative statements of past failures. You are trying to sell someone about who you are and where you want to go. You do not want to bore them with the history of your life, all your mistakes, and what you changed your mind about.
3) Men without jobs have little or no traction on dating sites that are focused on long-term relationships. Women do not want to hang their hats on perceived losers. On the other hand, if you can connect with a woman physically, they will often overlook the fact that you are a bicycle courier, as long as you come across as trying to better yourself. Keep your personal financial status out of the conversation if at all possible. If the person keeps insisting on focusing on that particular statistic, they just might be a gold digger
4) BBW
5) Love does not actually happen online – love can only happen after you meet. You either click, or you do not. It is the daily interactions and small interpersonal body language signals that are at the root of love. If you meet someone online, they will likely want to meet in person within two to four weeks. You must be cautious on a dating site, but you cannot be overly cautious or you will fail. If you are attracted to someone, so are other people, and you have to compete for their attention. Putting off a face to face meet for too long will doom you to failure.
6) There is a bit of stigma associated with dating sites. The reputation is that people who use such sites don't have a real life. They are social outcasts, ugly people, and deviants. Nothing is further from the truth. Unfortunately, many people refuse to even try online dating because of these factors. The reality is that many millions of people have successfully used online dating sites. Because of the anonymous nature of dating sites, you are more likely to be targeted by deviants on facebook, where everyone can see your real name, than on a dating site, where nobody knows your real name or where you live. People are strangely closed mouthed about telling people that they met online, which leads many people who have never used a dating service to assume it is useless, or worse yet, just a scam. This tendency to be closed-mouthed is kind of silly because everyone knows that people who date to have met at some time, so why try to hide it.
7) Online dating is amazing in it’s ability to connect people who would likely never have met in real life. Since everyone is there for the same reason, and since it is possible to simultaneously be interacting with several people at once, you really do have a much better chance of finding someone that you are truly compatible with for the long term. Online dating is actually the best forum for people to meet when they are just too busy, too tied up, or just not inclined to be wandering around bar hopping or social clubs trying to meet people. Online dating is one of the most modern types of tools for people to use on the internet. It is where the cool guys hang out these days. People like you who are not afraid to try something fairly new, or not quite in the mainstream. No matter if the forum is online dating or bar hopping, when it comes to finding the person of your dreams, you will likely have to kiss a few frogs along the way. So just get out into that real world or Internet marshland and get on with it.
If you are interested in online dating sites, then you might want to check out this resource page:
Online Dating
Here is a summary of the results of a study about the online dating practices of urban dwellers. This was the culmination for interviewing just under 100 men and women about how they date online and what they look for in potential dates and partners. Online Dating Services may not result in you finding the love of your life, but it may be an interesting diversion from all those poorly directed eHarmony.com and Match.com TV commercials that try to convince you about how lonely you are during late night movies.
Some Dating Insights Gained:
1) It is not uncommon for members of the online dating community to be members on various sites at the same time. The attitude is that the more exposure you give yourself to other people, the more likely it is that you will find a match. Sort of like buying several lottery tickets instead of just one. These same people are likely to be dating several different people concurrently hoping to find the one who clicks. Playing the field is a defence mechanism in the online arena. Because of the anonymity of the sites, you cannot tap into you normal social networks to find out about the people you are talking to online, or dating in real life. There is a much higher chance of being taken in by a smooth talker. It is also easy to give your heart away to a loser. Keeping several people “in process” at the same time helps you from “settling” on any one of them prematurely. Because of the anonymous nature of online dating sites, you cannot prescreen people through friends before meeting them. One way dating sites try to mitigate that is via chat and anonymous email, but even so, once you meet in real life for the first time, it has more of the hallmarks of a blind date that any other dating situation that you have found yourself in. With this high tendency not to hit it off on the first actual date, the online dating community tends to interact with more people at the same time, and as a consequence, they are more tolerant of people playing the field during the initial relationship phases.
2) Online Dating is a visual media at best. If you do not post pictures or videos of yourself, especially in situations where you are having fun with others, you can expect little or no action. Ladies about having less than average looks. If you do a good job of portraying yourself in both words and pictures of someone who loves to have fun, you will get positive results. For both men and women, this is a marketing exercise – the key here is not to take a crappy looking big-nosed picture of yourself staring into your web-cam’s fish eye lens – everyone already knows that you stare at your computer a lot because you are on an online dating site in the first place. There is no need to supply a picture of you in such an unflattering pose. The key is to portray an image of you as a person who has fun interacting with other people, animals, children, sports events, etc. If you are a woman, just remember that men see and assume – most do not read much, they look and evaluate visually for the most part, so keep the words to a minimum. If you are a man – pay attention to the words as best you can – look for the “must not be” things that many women pre-qualify their profiles with, and do not annoy them if you are a “must not be” person. Women are generally strong communicators; hopefully having to read “likes long walks on the beach” for the umpteenth time will not make you lose your cookies. In any event, for both genders, keep the profile text fun, factual and short. If you are lucky, you will find other people with similar interests and a complimentary sense of silliness. Be prepared to use the email and chatting facilities of the online site to get to know people better. Do not try to give your life story in the profile. Your profile is a short teaser ad that highlights your benefits to catch someones eye. Do not pollute it with negative statements of past failures. You are trying to sell someone about who you are and where you want to go. You do not want to bore them with the history of your life, all your mistakes, and what you changed your mind about.
3) Men without jobs have little or no traction on dating sites that are focused on long-term relationships. Women do not want to hang their hats on perceived losers. On the other hand, if you can connect with a woman physically, they will often overlook the fact that you are a bicycle courier, as long as you come across as trying to better yourself. Keep your personal financial status out of the conversation if at all possible. If the person keeps insisting on focusing on that particular statistic, they just might be a gold digger
4) BBW
5) Love does not actually happen online – love can only happen after you meet. You either click, or you do not. It is the daily interactions and small interpersonal body language signals that are at the root of love. If you meet someone online, they will likely want to meet in person within two to four weeks. You must be cautious on a dating site, but you cannot be overly cautious or you will fail. If you are attracted to someone, so are other people, and you have to compete for their attention. Putting off a face to face meet for too long will doom you to failure.
6) There is a bit of stigma associated with dating sites. The reputation is that people who use such sites don't have a real life. They are social outcasts, ugly people, and deviants. Nothing is further from the truth. Unfortunately, many people refuse to even try online dating because of these factors. The reality is that many millions of people have successfully used online dating sites. Because of the anonymous nature of dating sites, you are more likely to be targeted by deviants on facebook, where everyone can see your real name, than on a dating site, where nobody knows your real name or where you live. People are strangely closed mouthed about telling people that they met online, which leads many people who have never used a dating service to assume it is useless, or worse yet, just a scam. This tendency to be closed-mouthed is kind of silly because everyone knows that people who date to have met at some time, so why try to hide it.
7) Online dating is amazing in it’s ability to connect people who would likely never have met in real life. Since everyone is there for the same reason, and since it is possible to simultaneously be interacting with several people at once, you really do have a much better chance of finding someone that you are truly compatible with for the long term. Online dating is actually the best forum for people to meet when they are just too busy, too tied up, or just not inclined to be wandering around bar hopping or social clubs trying to meet people. Online dating is one of the most modern types of tools for people to use on the internet. It is where the cool guys hang out these days. People like you who are not afraid to try something fairly new, or not quite in the mainstream. No matter if the forum is online dating or bar hopping, when it comes to finding the person of your dreams, you will likely have to kiss a few frogs along the way. So just get out into that real world or Internet marshland and get on with it.
If you are interested in online dating sites, then you might want to check out this resource page:
Online Dating
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